by Tony Gjokaj March 05, 2025 5 min read
You’ve heard the saying a thousand times: "Just get motivated!"
But if you're anything like most guys, motivation comes and goes like a ghost.
One minute you’re hyped, and the next you’re wondering why you even bothered to lace up your sneakers.
Sound familiar?
That’s because the "motivation myth" is the reason most of us might fall off the wagon.
Motivation is overrated.
Here’s the truth: the key to consistent progress isn’t waiting for motivation to show up.
It's about showing up even when motivation is non-existent.
It’s about building a system that works even when
I’ve been there.
I know what it’s like to wake up feeling like doing anything but working out.
But I also know what it feels like when you stop waiting for motivation to kick in—and instead, you start training like a machine.
If you're ready to quit relying on those fleeting feelings of motivation and want to train like a machine, let’s dive in.
Here’s how you can ditch the emotional rollercoaster and make fitness a consistent part of your life.
We’ve all been there.
You hit the gym hard for a week, but after a few tough days, motivation starts to dip.
You miss a workout.
Then another.
And before you know it, you’re back where you started—sitting on the couch with no real plan.
It’s a vicious cycle that keeps you stuck.
And the worst part?
You feel like you need that “fire” inside to get things done.
Let me be clear: the most successful in their fitness goals don’t wait for motivation.
Instead, they’ve built something more reliable: a system that just works—no matter how they feel.
When I first got serious about working out, I couldn’t wait for motivation to strike.
I couldn't wait for my depression or anxiety to worsen.
I decided to make exercise a non-negotiable part of my routine.
I just continued showing up.
This shift changed everything.
It didn’t matter if I felt good or bad, if I was tired or full of energy.
The workout was happening because it was scheduled.
It was planned.
Elite athletes, top performers, Navy SEALs—they don’t get “motivated” every day.
They rely on systems, not motivation.
So why is motivation the go-to excuse for most guys?
The truth is, motivation fades.
What you need instead is consistency.
And that’s where the “machine-like” mentality comes in.
If you train like a machine, you don’t need motivation.
You just need to execute.
“Either you run the day or the day runs you” — Jim Rohn
Most people who start a new workout routine quit within the first three months.
But it doesn't have to be that way.
Here's a simple, 5-step plan to build a workout routine that lasts, even when you feel like doing anything else, built on the idea that motivation comes after action.
Motivation comes from action, not the other way around.
The hardest part is starting, so focus on making it easy to begin to feel good once you are working towards your goal.
For example, lay out your workout clothes the night before.
Have a pre-workout snack ready to go.
Remove as many barriers to entry as possible.
Make the whole thing frictionless to achieve.
The trick is to make your workout as automatic as brushing your teeth.
You want it to become a habit, not a choice.
For me, it’s simple: workout after my morning coffee or my energy drink powder mix.
That’s my anchor.
I don’t think about it.
I just know that when that caffeine hits, I hit the gym.
This consistency creates a routine where I don’t have to debate with myself about whether or not I’m training.
Find your anchor.
Maybe it’s right when you wake up, or after lunch, or as soon as you clock out from work.
But make it so predictable that it doesn’t require you to feel motivated to do it.
Bonus Points: do it first thing in the morning when you're energized and life's obligations haven't hit you yet!
Many of us dive in too hard, aiming for intense workouts every single time.
But here’s the kicker: you don’t need to go all-in every day to see results.
Start small.
Set a non-negotiable minimum—something so easy you can’t say no.
For example: Commit to at least 5 minutes of warm-up or doing one exercise.
It sounds trivial, right?
But that’s the point.
It’s about showing up.
If you can do 5 minutes, you’ll be more likely to do 15, 20, or even a full hour.
The key is eliminating the decision to skip.
Track your execution.
Every small win triggers a response in your brain's reward center, setting up a positive feedback loop, so focus on celebrating the progress you make in order to incrementally make progress!
How many workouts did you complete?
Mark every completed workout on a calendar.
It’s as simple as a checkmark.
The streak itself becomes the motivation.
You’ll start to feel the satisfaction of not breaking your streak, and that becomes the fuel to keep showing up—even when you don’t feel like it.
Bonus Points: Track your workout sessions, your personal records and more.
Look back at your workout journals regularly to see how far you've come. This is what I call building your "Exercise Resume".
Repetition builds motivation, leading to the end goal of consistently working out.
The more consistently you exercise, the easier it becomes to keep going, so don't break the chain!
For example, never miss two workout days in a row.
If you skip one day, make sure you get back on track the next day.
The streak itself becomes a powerful motivator.
This is how you turn yourself into a machine.
You eliminate motivation from the equation and create a system that just works, regardless of your mood.
Remember, the goal isn’t to feel motivated.
The goal is to train consistently.
The more you show up, the easier it becomes.
And one day, you’ll realize—you don’t really need motivation anymore.
You’ve built a routine that runs on autopilot.
So, what’s the next step for you?
Start small, anchor your workout, and track your progress.
Soon, your workouts won’t be something you "have to do"—they’ll be something you just do.
You’ve got this - let's get those gains!
Tony is the Owner of Reforged. He is a PN1 Certified Nutrition Coach and has been in the fitness space for over a decade. His goal is to help millions exercise their way out of depression and anxiety.
by Tony Gjokaj January 31, 2025 4 min read
Stress is a common part of life, but learning how to manage it effectively can make a significant difference in your overall well-being.
Chronic stress can lead to a range of health issues, both physical and mental, so finding ways to relieve it is crucial.
In this post, we are going to explore five effective stress destroyers to help you manage stress while also supporting recovery.
Let's dive in!
by Tony Gjokaj January 03, 2025 3 min read
I used to not be a morning person.
At the start, I often felt groggy and unmotivated, dreading the start of each day.
I experimented with various methods like waking up insanely early, yoga, and affirmations.
These things didn't bring me the positive boost in mood and energy I needed.
However, through this trial and error, I learned that the key to maximizing my morning energy lies not in rigid schedules or extreme measures, but in cultivating a balanced routine that prioritizes energy and a better mood.
In this post, we will explore five effective strategies you can add to your morning routine to boost your morning energy levels.
Let's dive in!
by Tony Gjokaj December 17, 2024 3 min read
Stress is something we all experience, but what exactly is it?
At its core, stress is your body’s response to challenges or demands.
It can come from various sources—work pressures, personal relationships, or even the daily grind of life.
When stress becomes overwhelming, it can take a toll on your mental and physical health.
The good news is that there are effective strategies to help you manage and reduce stress levels.
In this post, we are going to explore 5 ways to ease stress and reclaim your peace of mind.
Let's dive in!